common sense

Most people don't realize exactly what they have until it's gone. Why is it that you can mistreat someone or an situation and when it comes to an end or the person leaves you, you want to get yourself together or wish you did things differently. You should always try to do things right the first time so that you don't have to be put in that predicament. Not everyone around you cares about you and not everyone around you  will take the chance to understand and know who you truly are. So if there's someone who understand why you tend to do the things you do and they love your biggest fault, don't put them on the back burner just because you figure that they will always be there...because they could possibly leave you and never look back. Someone told me "If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with"...which is incorrect because if you originally showed the one you love that you're here for them, then you would be with the one you love& won't have to struggle to love the one you're with.